In this video, Bear’s morning clearly didn’t go as planned — he’s sitting there looking like someone just revoked his bed privileges. The Golden Shepherd — all 130 pounds of him — has been exiled to the couch corner while his cat roommate spreads out like she just bought the place.
His dad can’t believe it either. “Dude, what happened? Did she kick you out?” he asks, half-laughing, half-concerned, as Bear looks back with those big, guilty eyes that seem to say, “Yes, but please don’t make me deal with it.” Posted by @lifewithgoldenshepherds, the clip makes one thing crystal clear: this house has a boss, and it definitely has whiskers.
Dog tries learning bravery from owner in video
The video blew up fast — 51K likes and counting — all because Bear’s dad turned it into a full-on teachable moment. Bear looks at his dad, absolutely defeated, eyes flicking toward the cat now lounging smugly in his bed. The on-screen text promises, “Watch My Husband Teach Our Golden Shepherd Bravery,” but Bear’s expression says he’d rather opt out of this particular lesson.
His dad tries reasoning with him: “Bear, you’re 130 pounds. She’s like 20, bro.” But the big guy isn’t convinced. Every time he’s urged to reclaim his spot, the cat responds with a hiss and a look that could curdle milk. Bear tiptoes closer, one paw on the bed… and retreats. Classic gentle giant behavior — all fluff, zero confrontation.
Enter Nala, the family’s other Golden Shepherd, and clearly the brave sibling. She sneaks into the frame, hops onto the bed without hesitation, and the cat? Promptly vacates. “Yay, good girl, Nala!” Dad cheers. Lesson learned: Sometimes bravery just means cheering from the sidelines while your sister fixes it.
Dad wraps it up by telling Bear they’ll work on his bravery. Meanwhile, the comments are losing it with love and laughter. “Bear’s just a respectful gentleman who doesn’t want to disturb a lady,” one wrote. Another added, “It’s not the size of the dog in the fight… it’s the cat.”

